Personal dilemmas: what would you choose for yourself?
Not every dilemma involves someone else. Some are just you, a decision and a voice in your head arguing both sides. A cheap flight leaves tomorrow, and going means breaking two promises. Someone who hurt you years ago writes to apologise and asks to meet. The novel is finished, the contest closes tonight, and part of you wants one more year. These questions are quieter, but they often say the most about you. Pick your answer on each one and see how other people chose for themselves.
A cheap flight leaves tomorrow for a city you have always wanted to see. Going means canceling two promises.
Someone who hurt you badly years ago writes to apologize and asks to meet.
A close friend says talking to someone might help with what you have been carrying. You have always handled things alone.
The novel draft is done. The contest deadline is tonight. The other option is one more year of polishing.
The icebreaker asks everyone for a true story they have never told.
The reunion is in an hour. You look at the outfit you planned and suddenly want to show up as who you are now, not who they remember.
The DNA ancestry kit is on sale. Family lore has a few rooms nobody opens.
Nobody would ever know you skipped the thing you promised yourself.
You have outgrown the hobby everyone knows you for.
You and a friend have a rule: never cancel on each other. Tonight you need the evening.
You are very good at something that no longer feels like yours.
After a full week, a friend invites you out tonight.
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