What would you do? Questions for friends

Want to find out who your friends really are? Skip the trivia and ask them what they would do. Would they cover for you if you asked? Would they tell you your cooking was bad? Would they co-sign your loan? These questions get a group talking fast, because everyone thinks their answer is obvious until someone picks the other side. Use them at dinner, on a road trip or in the group chat. Answer each one yourself first, then see how other people split.

Your best friend is about to make a big decision you are sure is wrong for them.

A friend cooks you a special dinner. It is honestly not good — and they ask what you think.

Your friend cancels plans last minute — again — with another thin excuse.

A friend swears you to secrecy. Then another friend asks you about it, point blank.

A friend asks to stay on your couch for a few days. It is now day six.

An hour before the deadline, a friend asks to copy your assignment. They had the same week you did.

At dinner, one person ordered far more than everyone else — and suggests splitting the bill evenly.

A friend owes you money neither of you mentions anymore. Their holiday photos just appeared in your feed.

Your friend's rent is due and short. You have it. Last time, paying them back took a year and cost the friendship something.

Your oldest friend asks you to co-sign their loan. The bank will not take them alone, and you know why.

A group chat is piling on someone you barely know, and it is turning cruel.

A friend invites you to watch their first stand-up set. The jokes in rehearsal were not funny.

A friend asks you to proofread a message to their ex. It is cold, maybe cruel.

The group chat has settled on a surprise party theme the birthday friend will quietly hate.

One seat is left on the trip. One friend asked months ago, another had a rough year and could use it.

Then go one step further: take the free 13-dilemma test and see which trait leads your choices.

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