Would you skip a family tradition you secretly dread?
Every year, the same family tradition comes around, and every year you quietly dread it. Everyone expects you there. Nobody has ever asked how you feel about it. You could skip it and finally say what you need, or you could go because the people matter more than the ritual. The question is not really about the evening. It is about how much of your time belongs to you and how much to the people you love.
The family tradition you secretly dread comes around again. Everyone expects you there.
Why people pick each side
Skip it this year
Skipping it leans Boundaries: you believe that saying no, even to family, is how you keep your yeses honest and your energy your own.
Show up like always
Showing up leans Loyalty: you see traditions as a thread that holds people together, and you would rather pay the small cost than be the gap at the table.
You know what you believe. But what would you do?
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